Stephen S. Murray H'54 '55 '63 '65 '16 P'16 '21
The Shelby Cullom Davis '26 Head of School
Letters from Our Wellness Team
Blake Eldridge '96 H'78 '12 P'25
Dean of Students
At Lawrenceville, we have always adjusted to deal with the strengths and challenges that characterize each generation of students. The opportunity to live in a reflective community (both House and campus) with a range of personalities and perspectives has been Lawrenceville's true genius.
Our current students started to come of age during the pandemic, and the confusing messages and tensions of that period informed their development. Their experiences at that impressionable age were typically family-focused and self-directed but also included fears of resource scarcity, social isolation, over-reliance on digital and social media, having academic grades/performance be the only measure their schools could make of them, and the potential viral dangers of public places. Consciously or not, these same aspects now seem coded into the students' sense of themselves and their experience of community.
House life combats all of those pandemic challenges and can help rewrite that code. And House life is most successful when students’ eagerness for social interaction, their desire to explore different aspects of their identity, and their willingness to balance their own desires with respect for others’ needs all complement each other in a supportive environment. That combination for House life closely mirrors the recipe for personal wellbeing. The discussions and experiences in the Houses, coupled with a general atmosphere of kindness and dignity, can continue to do the essential work of creating individuals prepared for thoughtful, informed decision-making and readiness for post-Lawrenceville independence.
Dr. Chris Renjilian
Medical Director
The most protective force in the lives of young people is us recognizing all that is good and right within them. When we actively choose to view young people in this way – with our focus centered on their strengths and their potential – we earn the power to behold them with unconditional positive regard and, without contradiction, hold them to high expectations. This is the foundation for the connections and conversations that help young people to grow continuously into lives of authentic wellbeing.
This has always been at the heart of great parenting and great education. There is nothing new or faddish about it. Yet, we live in a world that seems to blare, at the incessant pace of a 24-hour news cycle, that adolescents are constantly in crisis, moving in the wrong direction, broken. It can be easy for anyone to lose sight of who they really are: good inside, growing, and capable of becoming the adults who we need to lead our world tomorrow.
Now is the time to strategically focus on wellbeing, not because we believe our students are broken, but because we know that they are whole. We owe it to them to reaffirm, re-center, and re-animate protective forces in a modern and changing world. The world needs us to do this work because, while prevailing messages suggest we cannot cultivate the elements of wellbeing in teens today, we absolutely can – and in doing so, we chart a path for others to follow.
Further Communications from
Lawrenceville Leadership
- May 20, 2024 | Update on Wellbeing Strategic Plan
- February 12, 2024 | Student Resilience Survey
- January 20, 2024 | 2024-2025 Academic Schedule Update
- December 14, 2023 | Announcing Our Strategic Plan: House, Harkness, Heart
May 20, 2024 | Update on Wellbeing Strategic Plan
February 12, 2024 | Student Resilience Survey
January 20, 2024 | 2024-2025 Academic Schedule Update
December 14, 2023 | Announcing Our Strategic Plan: House, Harkness, Heart
Planning Process and Engagement
Through House and Harkness, Lawrenceville challenges a diverse community of promising young people to lead lives of learning, integrity, and high purpose. Our mission is to inspire the best in each to seek the best for all.
Dean of Campus Wellbeing
Create and endow the position of an inaugural Dean of Campus Wellbeing, charged with implementing a holistic and inclusive strategy towards promoting student wellbeing.
Wellness Team
Build a student-centered Wellness Team inclusive of the Assistant Head of School, Medical Director, and Dean of Students to:
- Create a campus environment that prioritizes student social-emotional health
- Foster a residential culture of care and inclusion
- Provide leadership and support for student organizations that promote health and wellness
Deans and Docs
Establish a "Deans and Docs" group including the Medical Director, Dean of Students, Dean of Academics, Dean of Diversity, Inclusion, and Community Engagement, Director of Counseling and Psychological Services, and Director of Educational Support to help ensure a holistic and proactive focus on student wellness and individual case management.
Vision Statement
Lawrenceville seeks to build an even stronger community to which all members contribute and have the opportunity to grow and thrive physically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Overall wellbeing is enhanced when students feel safe, supported, and empowered in an environment that promotes kindness, respect, joy, and a measured pace of life.
Vital to a sense of belonging at Lawrenceville, House encompasses purposely developed culture, spirit, and values.
Foster an inclusive and supportive campus environment that honors individuality within a context of belonging and community wellbeing.
Essential to cultivating differing perspectives and independent thinking, Harkness engages student voices through thoughtful inquiry.
Promote a collaborative academic culture that fosters discernment, curiosity, and empathy and provides a foundation for students to lead lives of high purpose.
Create a more measured academic pace of life for students that facilitates growth inside and outside of the classroom.
The soul of our community and the focus of this strategic plan, Heart is achieved when we invest in ourselves, in one another, and in our environment.
Provide engaging opportunities that enhance the awareness and skills of community members, while building our collective capacity to adopt wellbeing measures in a meaningful way.
Instill a greater awareness of our immediate surroundings and steward our natural resources in a way that generates hope for a sustainable future and provides the tools to achieve it.
Wellness Wheel
The Wellness Wheel provides an opportunity for community members to reflect on the seven dimensions of wellness and consider the areas in their lives that are going well. It can also help identify and articulate areas that need attention to improve overall wellbeing. The wheel reinforces a common understanding of what we are working toward as a community.
Wellbeing Lexicon
A foundational Wellbeing Lexicon supports our ability to have productive community conversations, and to be better equipped to communicate our needs to one another. By working off of a common vocabulary, we can more effectively identify how we are feeling and how to ask for support. These definitions are gleaned from across the wellbeing landscape, including the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and other sources used by mental health clinicians, including mental health diagnostic guides.
This lexicon and many other resources for our community are available here.
Looking Ahead to a Bright Future
House is where our students need to feel a fundamental sense of belonging and support; Harkness is where their minds are nurtured and their academic growth ensured; and Heart is where they intersect, setting our students up with the emotional resilience to thrive, both here at Lawrenceville and beyond.
While our vision for wellbeing will evolve to meet the changing needs of our students, faculty, and staff, our commitment to these tenets of the Lawrenceville experience will remain steadfast. Together, these three pillars are essential for developing a community that prioritizes and is deeply committed to student mental health and wellbeing. We aspire to support the opportunities that students report matter to them most: House connections, friendships, inclusion and belonging, mutual respect, and a strong sense of community.
Wellbeing is not a steady state – it is a growth process and an ongoing journey of self-discovery. We recognize that our community members progress along at different rates, and there are multiple pathways for reaching a positive destination. Our Key Aspirations represent starting points, and it is only through continued campus conversations, building capacities for self-reliance and self-advocacy, and modeling the healthy behaviors and mindsets we hope to cultivate, that we will flourish as a community.
From Our Community
What does a healthy Lawrenceville look like? Students are comfortable completing work individually or collaboratively, and accepting of the fact that it is sometimes difficult or not fun. They can confidently and authentically engage one another socially, and they are maintaining healthy sleep habits.
Doug Piper
Head of Griswold HouseA healthy Lawrenceville is an environment in which students are able to achieve a balance between their academic, extracurricular, and social lives. My hope is that as Lawrenceville continues to put an emphasis on wellbeing, students act as leaders to initiate the change they want to see. The best of Lawrenceville emerges when community voices come together to drive change.
Bryce Langdon '24
Student Body PresidentStudents come together in our dining centers for nourishment and community. It is here that we support our students in creating the energy and structures to not only perform at the highest levels but to develop lifelong skills to enhance their wellbeing. Now is the time to optimize this vitally important aspect of the Lawrenceville experience.
Kelly Wise
Associate Director of AthleticsAt Lawrenceville, we encourage one another to connect with the various communities we find ourselves in. It is important that we be intentional about improving our mental and physical health, and that we exhibit kindness as we move ahead in our work as a community.
Jason Larson H'03 '19 '20
Head Athletic TrainerTrue wellbeing is looking at policies and structures of systems and reworking them to benefit the humans in them. I hope the Wellness Representative will continue to serve as a liaison between the student body and administration, and shine light on issues that might otherwise go unnoticed. I believe that wellbeing work is done best when it is a conversation, and when we ask – rather than assume – what people need.
Cassie Dillard '24
Wellness Representative, Student CouncilIf our students leave Lawrenceville and find college communities that support and encourage them to be emotionally whole, intellectually inspired, and socially adept lifelong learners, they are positioned exceptionally well for whatever comes next. Lawrenceville’s focus on wellness is one of the wisest investments we can make in developing thoughtful learners and leaders of the future. It is not a passing fad – it is foundational to the entire enterprise of education at both the secondary and post-secondary levels.
Courtney Roach
Associate Director of College CounselingOne of the key things that Aldo Leopold championed is that in order to have a desire to adopt sustainable practices and responsible stewardship of our natural resources, people need to first gain an intellectual and emotional appreciation for the land and environment. Therefore, I think that the closest connection between sustainability and community wellbeing is spending time outside in nature. There are countless studies that show a clear correlation between time spent outdoors and improved mental, physical, and emotional health, and there is also a connection between time spent outdoors and a tendency to preserve the environment.
Sophia Kohmann '24
Sustainability CouncilNow more than ever, the success of House and Harkness is dependent on our wellbeing. In order to seek the best for all, we must be willing to look out for one another and engage in our community. This begins at the smallest level – eye contact and pleasantries on pathways, engaging in conversation in common rooms, and connecting during House lunch. What sets us apart should also be what brings us together.
Christi Ding
Assistant Head of Kirby House